Praying To Have a Servant's Heart
By Jason, M.Ed., M.A.R., Headmaster
Loving Others in a Age of Self-Indulgence
"...not by the way of eye-service, as people-pleasers,
but as servants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart,
rendering service with a good will as to the Lord and not to man." (Ephesians 6:6-7)
Sometimes I get frustrated with how much my children complain. At times, it seems like no matter what we are doing or have done, they will find some problem or shortcoming and will launch into complaining and whining. Then, this morning, I woke up, healthy and surrounded by my family, and I got out of bed, irritated at my sore back and the fact that it was Monday morning. I was blessed to wake up in a nice home, and I walked downstairs grumbling in my mind because the kitchen wasn't perfectly clean. Where do my children get this self-pitying, self-indulgent whining? I guess I don't have to go very far to find that answer.
The problem with self-pitying complaining is that it focuses all of our attention on ourselves and keeps us from looking at and serving the real needs of others. It is pretty tough to love God and love others when my focus is so strongly pulled toward my own "problems." Growing up in the 70's, I remember well the old children's television theme song- "The most important person in the whole wide world is you and you hardly even know you."